Parenting dilemma
Now that the weather's nice, David and I really like to take walks around our neighborhood in the evenings. But, Elizabeth really doesn't like sitting in the stroller for that long anymore, so we've started letting her walk with us. A few nights ago, Elizabeth decided she wanted to take her doll, Lou Lou, in her doll stroller for our nightly walk. She was having a great time pushing Lou Lou, running up ahead of us on the sidewalk. Instinctively, David yelled out to her not to run on the sidewalk, for he knew that she would eventually fall (her klutziness is well documented). But, she was having such a great time, laughing and running, that I told him to let her run, as she'd eventually have to learn about skinned knees. Sure enough, not 5 minutes later, she fell and skinned her knee for the very 1st time. (Yes, that's hard to believe, I know, but she's never been much of a risk taker.) We had the requisite tears, and the all important choosing of the Dora band-aid, but it really was sore for quite a while, and caused her a lot of discomfort.
So, as you can guess, I had moments of remorse where I regretted not letting David keep our baby safe. After all, you never want to see your child hurt. It's hard to find a happy medium between protecting your child from the world and letting them enjoy being a kid. If anyone ever gets it figured out perfectly, please let me know.
But, it does appear that our lesson worked. Last night, as Elizabeth was preparing to go outside, she told me she was going to walk because she didn't want another boo-boo...